我知道你很难过

我知道你很难过
爱一个人 需要缘份
你何苦让自己 越陷越深
别傻得用你的天真 去碰触不安的灵魂
每一天只能痴痴的等
爱一个人 别太认真
你受伤的眼神 令人心疼
没有一个人 非要另一个人 才能过一生
你又何苦逼自己 面对伤痕
我知道你很难过
感情的付出
不是真心就会有结果
别问怎么做， 爱才能长久
这道理有一天你会懂
我知道你很难过
昨天是恋人
今天说分手就分手
别问你的痛 要怎么解脱
多情的人注定 伤的比较久
爱若变成了刺 思念也成了痴
也许心碎是爱情最美的样子
主唱： 蔡依林


一位朋友送给我的歌。。

缘尽。

幸福是那么的轻，那么的飘，被风一吹就不见了。。
世事总那么的难尽如人意，
如果你不是这样的人那该有多好。。
真真假假我已分不出，也不再重要了。。
受了伤的心何时才会复原呢？？

突然很想说。。

幸福的风，吹拂在脸上，
享受那温暖，舒适的一刻，但短暂。

真想靠在你肩膀，睡去
希望这一刻能, 停留，
直到永远。

Stupid Survey =O

RULES:

1. People who have been tagged must write their answers on their blogs and replace any question that they dislike with a new question formulated by themselves.

2. Tag 6 people to do this quiz and those who are tagged cannot refuse. These people must state who they were tagged by and cannot tag the person whom they were tagged by continue this game by sending it to other people.

Tagged by: Daniel (my crazy brother )

1. If your lover betrayed you, what will your reaction be? take revenge?
What can i do? maybe i'll go to beat small ppl under the bridge wahaha *evil* i believe my lover would not betray me..hehe

2. If you can have a dream to come true, what would it be?
Everybody in this world is as rich as a rich man..everybody live happily with satisfaction so that no crime such as robbery or murder will happen..haha

3. What are the criteria for your dream lover? Surely is a guy..
Very handsome, tall, rich, can sing very well..(am i describing lam fong? yes exactly!!)

4. What would you do with a billion dollars?
First, give my parents,brother and sister each a million dollar, donate a million to the charity, then go for shopping shopping and shopping..buy a lot of nice stuff for my friends, treat them eat nice nice food.
The most exciting is travel backpack around the world!! yay^^
(I am not as stupid as daniel who wants to burn all the monay)

5.Will you fall in love with your best friend?
Maybe i will, last time.But now definitely no.

6. Which is more blessed, loving someone or being loved by someone?
Both..
but someone sang,为什么相爱的人不能够在一起~~ ------> so sad =(

7. How long do you intend to wait for someone you really love?
I don't know

8. If the person you secretly like is already attached, what would you do?
Wish them happy (so sad..)

9. Do you think the world would be better off if everyone has the same religion/ethnicity/etc?
No. The world is much more beautiful and colorful with various nationality and ethnicity. This is also the power of our mighty God who created this world.

10. You see a 50 year old man entwine arms with a girl about the age of 20+ and find out there are gf/bf. What are your first thoughts?
$.$

11. How would you see yourself in ten years time?
This queastion is so familiar..Like those questions they always like to ask in many motivation courses and camps =.= (erm..probably working somewhere else and earning lots and lots of money!! hahaha!)

12. What's your fear? Cats, dogs and furry furry animals!! Lizards (arhh!!)

13. What's the first thing you do when you woke up? Off my alarm clock and get back to sleep (hehe^^)

14. Would you give all in a relationship? Give what? my heart? Wan me dig it out or not? (yier~~ disgusting)

15. If you fall in love with two people simultaneously, who would you pick? How can I fall in love with two people at the same time? My heart is too small and have enough space for just one person =p

16. Would you forgive and forget no matter how horrible a thing the someone has done? After i forget about it maybe i had forgiven..but it takes time

17. Do you prefer being single or having a relationship? Both

18. If your gf/bf told you that she/he is actually a princess /prince, what will you do? Yeah!! waiting to be the princess of my prince. I love you prince ^.^

Hohoho, kind of tired of these tags and the question was so.........but still i manage to answer all. It tooks me 1 week to finish this blog =.=

1.jeng jong

2.Yeannie

3.Elaine

4.仁福

5.keat hui

6.Bin Chuan

异地恋，是这样的吗？

一对情侣，几百公里的距离。

真的会发生这些事吗?









感情能靠电话维持吗？误会能靠通电解决吗？











是谁的错呢？只要够坚定就能了吗？




































爱真的需要勇气~~
如果已经牵手,就不要随便放手...











谁可以给我信心?

缘@仙人掌

那天在Tesco Kampar突然看到有卖仙人掌，就很兴奋的买了两颗回去，打算一棵给自己一棵给丽芬。为什么要买仙人掌？哈哈。。忘了在哪里看到一篇文章说仙人掌可以吸收电脑辐射，所以就买回去放在电脑前，免得我被电脑射得老二十岁！！

就是这两颗可爱的仙人掌=）

仙人掌啊仙人掌，我和你真有缘。

五年前-- 学长团的欢送会，学弟学妹们送了我们一人一颗仙人掌，虽然有点奇怪，但是卡片上的祝福语还蛮感动的。。

六年前-- 我们筹办的学长团生活营，第三届创造未来激励营之当一颗仙人掌。 哈哈！！生活营的名字是我取的呢。。难忘的生活营，难忘的朋友，难忘的一年=)

当年的主题曲--“做一个人， 不能一事无成，想要成功就该靠自己组成。 心的方向时刻随风飘扬, 在荆棘的路上 更要表现得坚强. 在我们学涯的路上, 时常会遇上风和浪, 历经了几许的风霜 也已是百孔千疮。 悠悠岁月漫长 当上学长迈进前方 背上了这负担我们就像是仙人掌。其实累只是我们给予自己的一种安慰 学海无涯, 唯勤是岸 你有能否体会 生活在这世上, 你不可能没遇过困难 只要我们懂得面对 这些都不算麻烦, 只有毅力和耐心才能攀过这围墙 积极地去面对 成为茁壮的仙人掌。”

家人对我说,出来社会工作要坚强,要有毅力。。朋友说我有时很冷漠,难以靠近,就像仙人掌。。。我说,我会坚强,我正努力拔掉身上的刺,虽然很痛,但我比较希望能舒服的与大家相处。

奇怪奇怪。。

刚刚交待好工作，说话说得有点口干，想想便休息一下，上上网。。。。几分钟后，有种想哭的冲动，眼泪在眼眶里打转，差点就要掉下了。。忍忍忍，“我是不会哭得！！” 我告诉自己。。真是莫名其妙，一直知道自己是不在乎的，但不知为什么会有这股冲动。。已经很久没有这种感觉了，我以为我已经不会被这种事刺到，我以为我已忘了这种感觉，但是今天它回来了。。我该怎么办？是我的问题吗？我有这么差吗？我知道自己是个超级缺乏安全感的人，我不知怎样才能信任。。我能接受得到吗？。。我。。算了，写着写着，已经没那么激动了，我只能说对不起。。

A present

This is the last present i received before graduate. A video full of heart and sincerity..describing our 3 years uni life in USM and the story of our friendship..seeing our friendship growing in this 3 years and our age growing also, older of course=P

It was a night in the dormitory of TESDEC in Terengganu, sook yee suddenly called all of us:" hey lets watch a movie now.." ohhh..i was so tired tat time and wondered:"why so late still wan to watch movie~~" so reluctant to get up..but still i follow and see wat movie is tat.. then after she pressed play, diiiiinnnggggggg~~~~~sorry---speechless---and---touching. It was this video!!! I dont know how to describe my feeling at that moment and i think the most suitable word is 'touching'...But luckily no cry la~~ Really very happy tat day, thanks sook yee for using her time to make this video, thanks to all of my friends (yea~~) i hav no idea how i should show my appreciation to my friends and those who helped me during my 3 years life in USM...what i can do is to wish with the fullest of my heart to all my friends--> good luck, have a bright future and good luck once more!!!