我曾经问过立雄(ex-housemate),和他的女朋友四五年感情了,还那么恩爱,究竟有没有吵过架??他就告诉我,恋人们刚开始的半年里都在热恋,大家的眼里只有对方的存在。。所有的事情只要有另一半在都变得很美好。。
但是,恋情快满一年时会有个冷淡期,这时大家会变得没有话题,也会为了小小的事情而吵架,感觉好像变了。但这并不代表已经没有感觉了,吵架是因为对对方要求变高了,越来越在乎对方的想法了,会害怕不被对方认同。。沉默是因为还找不到能够长久相处的模式。。这两种沟通方式可以很致命,也可以很有效。
如果能够渡过这个过渡期,感情不但会升温,彼此会很有默契,还会有老夫老妻的感觉呢,谁都不能没有谁。。一旦过不了这关,就只好分手咯 T______T
哈哈,没想到他的一段话能让我记到现在。
立雄和天心真得很令人羡慕呢~~
祝福你们白头到老哦^^
不知道他讲得对不对,但这就是他的体会。。
我呢?看着垂死挣扎的一份情,曾经细心栽培灌溉,现在竟然什么也做不到。。只好眼睁睁看着它死掉。。原来它已经营养不良了。。
我不是见死不救,只是无能为力。。一个巴掌拍不响啊!!
Saturday, August 15, 2009
Monday, May 4, 2009
再见
那一天知道你要走
我们一句话也没有说
当午夜的钟声敲痛离别的心门
却打不开我深深的沉默
那一天送你送到最后
我们一句话也没有留
当拥挤的月台挤痛送别的人们
却挤不掉我深深的离愁
我知道你有千言你有万语却不肯说出口
你知道我好担心我好难过却不敢说出口
当你背上行囊卸下那份荣耀
我只能让眼泪留在心底
面带着微微笑用力的挥挥手
祝你一路顺风
当你踏上月台从此一个人走
我只能深深的祝福你
深深的祝福你最亲爱的朋友
祝你一路顺风
千万要好好照顾自己,
祝你在上海有个愉快又难忘的旅程。
有空就mail我吧。。
嫌我啰嗦我也要讲最后一句。。
真的真的要小心,真的真的要好好照顾自己。。
再见 !
我们一句话也没有说
当午夜的钟声敲痛离别的心门
却打不开我深深的沉默
那一天送你送到最后
我们一句话也没有留
当拥挤的月台挤痛送别的人们
却挤不掉我深深的离愁
我知道你有千言你有万语却不肯说出口
你知道我好担心我好难过却不敢说出口
当你背上行囊卸下那份荣耀
我只能让眼泪留在心底
面带着微微笑用力的挥挥手
祝你一路顺风
当你踏上月台从此一个人走
我只能深深的祝福你
深深的祝福你最亲爱的朋友
祝你一路顺风
千万要好好照顾自己,
祝你在上海有个愉快又难忘的旅程。
有空就mail我吧。。
嫌我啰嗦我也要讲最后一句。。
真的真的要小心,真的真的要好好照顾自己。。
再见 !
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
Monday, March 16, 2009
Friday, March 6, 2009
No more wisdom...
Well, yesterday morning i went to see the dentist. After i reach the clinic, i was asked to wait for a moment before i can go into the room. So, as i was waiting, i simply read the newspapers and press on the astro remote control.
Am i nervous ? No, i cant imagine that i was so calm from the beginning till the end.
After 15 minutes, i saw a handsome guy came to the clinic and went inside the room..Ahaa, here is the dentist..
i was called to go into the room after 1 minute, and i saw the handsome dentist there. So, the conversation started,
dentist: Hi, whats your problem?
me: err..i wan to extract my wisdom teeth (acted silly)
dentist: oh, is there any problem with your teeth?
me: no
dentist: any pain?
me: no
dentist: so, why u still wan to extract it?
i started to blah blah blah about my reason....
dentist: Ok,do you seek any advise from other dentist before you came here?
me: no
dentist: so, why you will think of this solution? since not many people know that extracting wisdom teeth is the best solution..
me: err..(smile..i dont know how to answer him..i am not stupid ok=.=|||)
dentist: ok, let me check on your teeth.
After checking on my teeth, the dentist started to explain the pros and cons, the risk of this surgery, and what will be the effect after the surgery. Anywhere i still want to undergo this surgery no matter how much risk it has. The dentist confirmed which tooth to extract, since i got 2 wisdom teeth on each side of my lower jaw.
After taking an X-ray of my right side tooth, the surgery begun.
First, the dentist gave me a local anesthetic to numb the area where the tooth will be removed.
Then, he opened up the gum tissue over the tooth and took out any bones that is covering the tooth, and then cut the tooth into smaller pieces to make it easier to remove.
After the tooth was removed, he stitched my wound and placed a cotton pad over the wound to help stop the bleeding. (The dentist told me the whole process before the surgery, and i just can imagine what is he doing to my teeth during the 30 to 40 minutes, i had no feeling as i was anesthetic-ed)
Finally, after the surgery, the dentist gave me alot of advise on the food that i should not take, and the medicine that i should take.

After i paid, i went back home with an antibacterial mouthwash, painkillers, antibiotics, 'antiswollen', cotton pads and also...a missing tooth =O
I should come back to the dentist after 1 week to take off my stitches =(
and the cost was.....RM375 (Oopss $$)
Am i nervous ? No, i cant imagine that i was so calm from the beginning till the end.
After 15 minutes, i saw a handsome guy came to the clinic and went inside the room..Ahaa, here is the dentist..
i was called to go into the room after 1 minute, and i saw the handsome dentist there. So, the conversation started,
dentist: Hi, whats your problem?
me: err..i wan to extract my wisdom teeth (acted silly)
dentist: oh, is there any problem with your teeth?
me: no
dentist: any pain?
me: no
dentist: so, why u still wan to extract it?
i started to blah blah blah about my reason....
dentist: Ok,do you seek any advise from other dentist before you came here?
me: no
dentist: so, why you will think of this solution? since not many people know that extracting wisdom teeth is the best solution..
me: err..(smile..i dont know how to answer him..i am not stupid ok=.=|||)
dentist: ok, let me check on your teeth.
After checking on my teeth, the dentist started to explain the pros and cons, the risk of this surgery, and what will be the effect after the surgery. Anywhere i still want to undergo this surgery no matter how much risk it has. The dentist confirmed which tooth to extract, since i got 2 wisdom teeth on each side of my lower jaw.
After taking an X-ray of my right side tooth, the surgery begun.
First, the dentist gave me a local anesthetic to numb the area where the tooth will be removed.
Then, he opened up the gum tissue over the tooth and took out any bones that is covering the tooth, and then cut the tooth into smaller pieces to make it easier to remove.
After the tooth was removed, he stitched my wound and placed a cotton pad over the wound to help stop the bleeding. (The dentist told me the whole process before the surgery, and i just can imagine what is he doing to my teeth during the 30 to 40 minutes, i had no feeling as i was anesthetic-ed)
Finally, after the surgery, the dentist gave me alot of advise on the food that i should not take, and the medicine that i should take.
After i paid, i went back home with an antibacterial mouthwash, painkillers, antibiotics, 'antiswollen', cotton pads and also...a missing tooth =O
I should come back to the dentist after 1 week to take off my stitches =(
and the cost was.....RM375 (Oopss $$)
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